I am someone who believes in “AND”. In a world that trains us to view life in black and white terms I choose instead to focus on the AND. The connector between the black AND the white. The AND is the place of truth where all things can exist together. The AND is the place of both black AND white, it is the gray area.
In the gray area there is no right or wrong or good or bad; there is just AND. It is the place where life can be messy AND wonderful AND painful AND simple.. The list can continue on indefinitely.
This blog is about the AND. It is about living my truth in the gray area. It is about embracing all of life, not just the pretty parts.
You’ve heard the expression More than One Way to Skin a Cat?
Well I hate that expression, so I came up with my own version: There is more than one way to add to nine.
It is just my way of saying there is an AND present in this place, we are standing in a gray area where more than one option exists.
Once after saying this phrase to my husband he then said; It’s not just that there is “more than one way to add to nine”, there are infinite ways to add to nine. There are infinite ways to add to nine because the options are endless.
My point EXACTLY.
There is no right or wrong or good or bad, there are just infinite options. There is no limit to what is possible.